RITUALS

Creating a special place in your home for rituals and moments of rest can have a profound positive effect on your well-being. Such a place acts as a safe haven, a personal space where you can retreat from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. By consciously decorating this space with elements that suit you—such as crystals, candles, soft pillows, herbs, and inspiring objects—you can align the energy completely with your needs.

These types of ritual spaces help to find inner peace and balance. They offer the opportunity to breathe more consciously, to reflect and to strengthen your intentions. Creating a calm, beautiful environment reduces stress, promotes mindfulness and opens up space for creativity and inspiration. By using this place regularly, you give yourself a loving signal that your own well-being and spiritual growth are important.

The power of these rituals begins upon waking. Every morning begins with a conscious intention, immediately after cleansing the space. The windows are opened to let in fresh energy, while incense burns softly and lets the energy of the previous day flow away. The floors are mopped with Florida water, for a deep cleansing effect that prepares the space for new energy.

My crystals, carefully chosen and cherished, are regularly cleansed and charged. They are washed and placed deep in the earth or under the sun at full moon to renew their energy. In addition, I use my homemade house spray to infuse every corner of the rooms with purifying and protective energy.

With singing bowls or a soft bell I let vibrations flow through the space, specifically aimed at my plants, so that they can reach their highest frequency. These elements work together according to the principles of feng shui, to bring balance and harmony to my home. In this way, the house becomes a safe haven, where everyone who comes home feels supported and protected.

These morning rituals start with simply making the bed. Step by step, the house gets the love and attention it deserves. When I enter my house, I greet it consciously, so that my energy is felt in the deepest fibers. Every action is a loving confirmation that this house is not just a place, but a living whole that is nourished with care and intention.

In the silence of the evening, when the world comes to rest, a sacred ritual begins. The scent of sage, frankincense and palo santo fills the space, each with their own energy and meaning. These herbs are not just scents; they are bridges between the earthly and the spiritual, between intention and manifestation.

The herbs are chosen with care and dedication, attuned to the intention of the evening. Sage purifies, removes negative energies and opens the space for new possibilities. Frankincense invites higher energies and strengthens spiritual awareness. Palo santo brings peace and protection, a soft balm for the soul.

Burning these herbs is more than an act; it is a dance of smoke and intention, a fusion of scent and thought. The smoke meanders through the space, whispering against walls and objects, while the intention spreads like an invisible wave of energy.

In these carefully prepared evenings a safe and healing environment is created. Here there is room for reflection, letting go and receiving. Old energies are swept away and new dreams are planted in the fertile soil of consciousness.

One of my most cherished rituals is creating an evening that feels like a loving date with myself. I take the time to consciously make myself beautiful, to give myself attention and to reflect on what I want to give myself. I do this by putting on music that perfectly matches my mood. I lose myself in the music, dance to the rhythms and let myself be completely carried away. For each emotion I have put together a long playlist, filled with songs that touch me deeply. Sometimes it feels like I am experiencing a wonderful evening in a cozy pub, other times I listen to intense, soulful songs or rhythmic Spanish music.

From old classics to the songs from my youth that deeply touched me—songs full of joy, heartache or pure wisdom. From a young age, music was my refuge, especially during my primary school years when I was unfortunately bullied. Music and warm baths already offered me comfort and helped me relax after a hard day in the 3D world. I have taken those rituals with me into my daily life. Not every day is the same, but dancing remains one of my favorite ways to let my energy flow freely.

This ritual is so important to me because I believe that you should feel like the movie star in your own movie. No one should infiltrate that sacred being. From a young age I knew that the only person I am with 24 hours a day is myself. It is actually natural for me to treat my home as an extension of myself. Both inside and out it should be a reflection of who I am. It is impossible for me to imagine a home that does not feel completely my own.

These rituals are a tribute to ancient traditions and at the same time a personal journey within. Each evening carries a unique energy, attuned to what is needed at that moment. This creates a powerful interplay of past and present, of nature and spirit.

In the soft glow of candlelight and the fragrant smoke of herbs, not only is the space healed, but also the soul. It is a moment of coming home to yourself, carried by the elements and the power of intention.

I realize that I am in a privileged position and have completely surrendered to this spiritual journey. I knew that this was my task to pass on, and I am grateful that this space has been given to me. This path is about reprogramming old patterns and opening doors to deeper levels of consciousness. With love and dedication I follow this path, so that I can share this energy with the world around me.

A divine energy flows within me, infused with a deep-rooted romance. I live to fully embrace each day, to experience life in all its colors and shades. Even in the small, mundane obligations, I find ways to add light and joy. Because if you’re going to do something, why not do it wholeheartedly? There’s nothing wrong with surrounding yourself with beauty and comfort. Soft blankets, luxurious bedding, an inviting couch where I can curl up like a goddess in the evening. A cozy dining table surrounded by loved ones, a warm kitchen where loving meals are prepared. Even the daily care of my children—their seasonal clothes, fresh faces, soft pajamas, warm booties—brought me a deep sense of gratitude every single day. It’s a way of life that radiates: I am worthy, and so are the people around me.

Yet that feeling has not always been close to me. Living in survival mode robs you of space to breathe, to dance, to fill your home with fragrant warmth. My head was sometimes too full of worries to pay attention to those small rituals of love and care. Music, once my refuge and inspiration, seemed to slowly disappear from my life. An essential part of myself that slowly became silent. But then my twin soul was there. He brought the music back, rekindled the fire in me. Songs with profound lyrics woke me up, reminded me of my musical passion. It felt like I was slowly coming back to life. I am eternally grateful to him. Music became my safe haven again, a place to hide when the world became too much.



What made this return of music so special was that it was never considered strange at home. Music and dance were always interwoven in my life. So I could completely surrender to sounds that touched me to my soul. It is this love for music, for creating a warm and loving environment, that helps me to carry and celebrate life. That divine, romantic energy in me reminds me that I am worthy of living in beauty and passion.

I am the Empress in my own Empire!